Love marriage or Arranged marriage ?
This has been a never ending debate since centuries. Ask a person about this, and he/she would strongly support any one of these two and would have lots of valid reasons for supporting that. Before sharing my views about this debate, let's discuss the different aspects of love marriage and arranged marriage.
- In love marriage, you marry someone whom you already love, and in arranged marriage you have to marry and then love someone whom your family members have chosen for you. And here comes the most crucial part. In some families, they give importance to the opinion and choice of the boy or girl, but in our country most of the families decide who would be their son-in-law or daughter-in-law, according to their choice, and this happens especially with girls. And it is really tough to love someone whom your parents have chosen for you as per their choice. It's true that the parents never want their son or daughter to be unhappy after marriage. They do everything according to their assessment, what they think to be right and appropriate. They choose a family which they think is compatible with theirs..a family where their daughter would be able to adjust easily, or the would-be daughter-in-law from that family would be able to adjust with their family. But compatibility between two families should never be a deciding factor about the compatibility of a man and a lady who are going to marry.
